<p><span>In this article you will learn - </span><b data-redactor-tag="b">36 tips on How to choose pain to help you grow the best that you can be</b><br></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Only by going much beyond your fears, your limitations, your handicaps, your comfort zones - you can create incredible and extraordinary accomplishments</b>.</p><p>Your Success is <b data-redactor-tag="b">Proportional to the Amount of Pain, struggle, sufferings, hardships, changes and failures - You Can endure</b> and the learnings you apply - The Extent of your Struggle Determines the Extent of your Growth.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Broadening your horizons happens when you face the consequences of your own wrong/bad decisions actions and choices AND move forward beyond</b> your failures, regrets, shames and embarrassments as well as bounce back from breakups in few relationships.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">These struggles, sufferings and pains - of finding - answers and solutions in the realm of uncertain and unknown</b> - makes you resilient, compassionate, creative, a better problem solver and it develops the courage within yourself for facing facts and reality.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Wisdom almost always comes from all your meaningful struggles</b>, the pain of your sufferings, the hardships and setbacks, glaring failures and most blatant mistakes.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Through these experiences of trials, errors, and mistakes - your</b> vision gets illuminated, your ambition becomes clearer, you gain inspirations and grow to achieve success.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">You can only develop empathy, understanding and deep awareness of the suffering of others</b> [which is a great leadership trait]- by experiencing the struggle and the suffering yourself.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Pains, Struggles and suffering also enables the abilities to manage your future-wise BANI</b> [brittle-anxious-non-linear-incomprehensible] <b data-redactor-tag="b">and your current VUCA space</b> [volatile-uncertain-complex-ambiguous] - more effectively.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">New creation is not possible without breaking the older ways</b> - be it your mindset, your attitude, your perception or the global established ways of success - <b data-redactor-tag="b">any change is a process of</b> <b data-redactor-tag="b">pain</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">By creating correct changes in your behaviors, habits and mindset</b> - you are able to create metamorphosis and disruptive changes - which benefits the large masses.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Pain is what is going to turn you into a champion - ask any great athlete</b> - only if you let it drive you towards greatness - <b data-redactor-tag="b">but if you focus on avoiding the pains of growth - you may remain stunted</b>.</p><p>Running away from or pretending it is all rosy can't help anyone - <b data-redactor-tag="b">feeling the pain and then taking actions to mitigate is the only healthy option</b> for exponential growth.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Suffering can help you strengthen your willpower and also help you get out of victim mindset of Why does this sh*t always happen to me only</b> - by realizing that everyone struggles and suffers.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">All of us need to accept and understand - that not everything is going to be great all the time for you</b> - as there are tragedies, setbacks, and challenges that happen in life that can stun even the strongest of us.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Life can be hard and sometimes even downright overwhelming - for many of us</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">All of us have the ability to turn our pain into power.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">When we</b> <b data-redactor-tag="b">recognize that whatever is making us uncomfortable could be the biggest opportunity for growth</b> - we empower ourselves with best mindset and attitude. </p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">You need to be willing to let go and learning to release your negative emotions</b> - because keeping them bottled up will eventually lead to very serious consequences.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">36 tips on How to choose pain to help you grow the best that you can be</b></p> <ul><li>1.Start developing the mindset of a Champion [<b data-redactor-tag="b">Champions are not the ones who always win — but those who don't give-up on themselves and who keep trying harder</b> the next time and even harder the next time.</li> <li>2.Choose to Confront you fears by taking actions in the area of unknown and uncertain - taking a small simple step in that direction is good start </li> <li>3.Find <b data-redactor-tag="b">all those things that scares you the most - then identify which fear needs to be dealt</b> with in order for you to grow exponentially - then just go and do it</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">4.</b>Choose to do the work that most people avoid - <b data-redactor-tag="b">but doing which can put you ahead of the race</b></li> <li>5.Create a disciplined state of mind and train yourself to continuously improve and grow - by taking actions towards your dreams</li> <li>6.Ensure that you are always aware of the pain of doing nothing - which is always lessor than doing and making mistake and failing</li> <li>7.Takes actions based on <b data-redactor-tag="b">how they will help you move forward towards your dreams</b> - and not because you want to impress others or for boosting your ego</li> <li>8.Understand <b data-redactor-tag="b">when you dream big - you will not have the required capabilities -</b> you need to painstakingly commit to develop them </li> <li>9.Start taking greater responsibilities and risks to increase your power and influence</li> <li>10.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Stop succumbing to how others perceive you</b> - instead start working on and trust your own <b data-redactor-tag="b">capabilities</b> - because if you live as per other's expectations - you will end up feeling empty and miss great opportunities</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">11.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Start Doing What People Say You Cannot Do</b> - not because you want to prove anything - but only for the reason that <b data-redactor-tag="b">it will propel your towards your dreams faster</b></li> <li>12.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Understand that only your taking action gets results - otherwise it is just an illusion - and that when you become an action person it may not be always comfortable</b> - as If you want a fulfilling life, show the world what you can give and If you want to improve, take the first step no matter how small it is</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">13.</b>Be aware of your detrimental habits - <b data-redactor-tag="b">work on them and replace them with healthy habits </b></li> <li>14.Stop giving excuses and blaming to validate your inactions or failures - take ownership and accountability for your quality of life</li> <li>15.Learn how to crash - like the people who practice the martial arts - as informed failures to minimizes loss </li> <li>16.If you want to be happy, - explore the world - have a great family and do what makes you come alive </li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">17.</b>Understand that to have luxuries and riches that very few have - you also need to pay the costs - <b data-redactor-tag="b">which is your willingness to endure pain and sacrifice to make it happen</b></li> <li>18.If you want what one else has - <b data-redactor-tag="b">you must do what no one else does - If it were easy, everyone else would be doing it</b> - Keep going when everyone else wants to quit</li> <li>19.Understand <b data-redactor-tag="b">that all meaningful struggles and sufferings are needed for you to be prepared for something bigger</b> than you are doing right now</li> <li>20.Start Living day to day - <b data-redactor-tag="b">Concentrate on the things that matter the most to this day - And if you mess up remember tomorrow will bring a new beginning</b> - Let go when you should </li> <li>21.Don't absorb <b data-redactor-tag="b">other's negative emotions -Avoid getting caught in other people's bad moments</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">22.</b>Be consistent enough - <b data-redactor-tag="b">Clarify your priorities - stop chasing the wrong things</b></li> <li>23.Avoid instant gratification instead go for sustainable growth and progress</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">24.</b>When you do something and it didn't work out- <b data-redactor-tag="b">improve your strategy and try again until you succeed</b></li> <li>25.Taking responsibility for a tough decision when being wrong could have unpleasant consequences</li> <li>26.Upgrade your skills and knowledge on every day basis</li> <li>27.<b data-redactor-tag="b">Stop majoring in minor things - be intentional about every moment of every day</b> - understand that as per this great saying -Your input determines your outlook. - Your outlook determines your output - and your output determines your future</li> <li>28.Create Balance - <b data-redactor-tag="b">choose whom you spend your time with - choose your standards and values</b> - stop tolerating the mediocre - choose excellence</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">29.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Focus on those things that produce the best outcomes - ignore all else - invest more and more into your self-improvement</b></li> <li>30.Get yourself mentored to upgrade your mindset, your skills, your abilities, your growth and income</li> <li>31.Ask questions to <b data-redactor-tag="b">challenge as well as to expose ignorance and also to help others with the same concern</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">32.</b>Learn to Admit <b data-redactor-tag="b">that someone else is better capable than you to lead - in certain specific situation</b></li> <li>33.Acknowledge being wrong and honestly accept your mistake</li> <li>34.Give-up the safe option - change your opinion for a better one</li> <li>35.Be yourself - even if that may mean coming out as an eccentric person - Follow your values</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">36.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Start collaborating with brilliant people - to make your higher calling- happen </b></li></ul><div><b><br></b></div><div><b>#howpainhelpsusgrow, #relationshipofpainandstrugglewithsuccess, #whypainisessentialforsuccess, #extraordinaryaccomplishmentsneedsenduringpains, #broadenyourhorizons, #howyourpainandstruggleshelpyou, #wisdomcomesfromstruggles, #bigsuccessneedsbigstretching, #stretchingbeyondyourcomfortzones, #painstrugglesandgrowth<span class="redactor-invisible-space"></span><br></b></div>