Create Personality That Radiates Class, Elegance & Sophistication To Mesmerize The World.
All Of Us Come Across People who are so
1.Suave
2.Refined
3.Polished
4.Graceful
5.Charming
6.Elegant
7.Sophisticated
8.Captivating
9.Enchanting
Just their Presence in a group attracts us towards them - Irrespective Of Their Gender, Position, Looks, Expensiveness Of Clothes Etc.
We Have Also Come Across People – Who We Feel Are
1.Snobbish
2.Loud
3.Show-Off
4.Imposing
5.Dominant
6.Controlling
7.Desperate
8.Ill At Ease
9.Lacking Confidence
10.Rude
How Many Of You Want create a very Classy personality for yourself?
Being classy does Not Need Money Or Position [Professional, Social, Financial] Or Looks.
Having a Classy and sassy Persona can Give You and Edge, Power , Charm & Advantage In Your Personal, Professional, Business, Financial Growth & Success.
Although to build a Classy personality is not very difficult - but – It May Take From Months To Years - To Master The Art Of Being Classy & Sassy.
Simply Put It Needs Practice – and Initially It Will Be Slow progress=> But Once You Get The Momentum => You Will Be Surprised By The Direct & Indirect Benefits.
48 Do's for becoming a classy person
1.They Maintain Their Dignity => By Turning Into Humor – Something That Is Ridiculous => One Day I Was Standing In The Queue At The Enquiry Counter Of New Delhi Railway Station – Probably The Most Busiest Station In India => There Is Always Rush In The Enquiry & Unreserved Ticket Counter. One Guy Who Was Ahead Of Me - Asked The Counter Guy " When Is The 1st Train Of The Day To Bombay – He Replied That At 6am – Then This Guy After Few Seconds Asked "There Is No Other Train Before That" => Now Because They Are Always Facing Huge Crowd – Many Get Irritated => NOT THIS GUY => HE ANSWERED WITH A SMILE => YES THERE IS [Now Everyone Was Thinking How Is That Possible] => So This Guy Asked => When => Counter Guy Said The Previous Day => WOW
2.They Handle Rude-Ness Or People Who Push Them Or Impose On Them – In Very Easy & Unforgettable Ways => Like The Classic Comeback Line => 1. A Guy Is Asking A Female In A Lewd Manner "Your Place Or Mine" => Females Says Both "You Go To Yours & I Go To Mine" OR 2. Yet Another One => A Female Sitting Alone In A Table => A Guy Stranger Asking – Is This Seat Vacant => She Says "Yes - & - This Seat Will Become Vacant Too – If You Sit"
3.They Ignore Unworthy Comments - Without Getting Upset
4.They Have Confidence & Don't Seek Other's Approval, Or Need Any Extra Attention From Others
5.They Are Proud Of Who They Are
6.They Are Original – Not Trying To Be Someone Else
7.When Someone Is Angry Says Unkind Words To Them => They Either Respond By Saying - I'm Sorry You Feel That Way Or They Walk Away. If It Is Necessary To Discuss The Matter, They Delay Till Anger Subsides
8.They Practice Wittiness
9. They Stand Up For Themselves & Their Friends And Family
10.They Never Lower Themselves To The Level Of Other People With Rude Behavior.
11. They Understand Charity Is Wanting The Best For Everyone, But It Doesn't Mean People Can Take Advantage Of You.
2.They Don't Worry What Others Think
13.They Challenge Their Fears – They Are Not Afraid To Try Out New Things
14.They Praise People Behind Their Backs
15. They Are Educated - Don't Confuse Education With Qualifications/Degrees/ Certifications => It Is About Common Sense & General Awareness And Knowledge About Wide Topics & Interests
16.They Have Decent Manners
17. They Are Reliable And Not Flaky
18. They Are Not Bored With Their Life
19. They Know When And How To Apologize When They Are Wrong
20. They Know How To Handle Losses And Disappointments - Gracefully
21.They Honor Their Word And Keep Their Promises
22.They Know When To Ask For Help, But Avoid Desperate Behaviors
23.They Are Responsible 24.They're Incredibly Spontaneous
25. They Have Empathy
26. They Are Ambitious
27. They Follow Strong Core Values & Work Ethics
28.They Are Extremely Down To Earth
29.They Don't Feel The Need To Stalk On Social Media
30.They Are Passionate 31.They'll Surprise You Almost Always
32.They Will Introduce You To New Things 33.Their Conversations Are Never Boring
34.They Can Light You Up In Strange Ways
35.They'll Get Along With Your Friends Quickly or Strangers with Ease
36.They Are Always Up For Adventure
37.They're Very Comfortable With Themselves – At Home In Branded As Well As In Pajamas
38. They Treat Others Well
39.They'll Always Have A Strong Viewpoint
40.They Find Happiness In Small Things
41.They Maintain Their Cleanliness In Their Appearance -by
I.Well Fitting Clothes, Clean, Starched And Ironed
II.Shoes Clean And Polished
II.Clean And Well Groomed Hands And Feet
IV.Clean And Neat Hair
V.Modest Apparel
VI.Well Maintained Dental
VII.Not Overly Perfumed Or Wearing Strong After Shave (Doesn't Leave A Trail)
VIII.Has Good Posture; Walks With Confidence, With Head Up And Shoulders Back
IX.Conservative About Tattoos And Body Piercing, Or Better Still Has None At All
X.Abstains From Tobacco And Drugs Which Denigrates Looks
XI.Avoids Trends
XII.Distinguish Yourself With A Clean And Manicured Look
42.They Are Considerate & Kind To Others
43. They Are Polite
44.They Respect Others
45. They Are Choosy About The Words They Speak
46. A Classy Person Speaks A Little And Listens A Lot. Avoid Finishing Other's Sentences, And Never Correct Anyone's Grammar
47. Coming Across As A Know-It-All Irritates Others, And Makes You Look Like An Idiot
48. They Avoid Using Profanity Or Vulgarity
19 absolutely no-compromise Don'ts
1.They Don't Curse
2.Don't Be The Loudest Person In The Room
3.Don't Talk About How Much Class You Have
4.They Avoid Gossip, Slander And Insulting Remarks
5.They Voice Their Opinions Only When Necessary, And Do So Constructively And Appropriately
6.They Don't Try To Draw Attention To Themselves unnecessarily
7.They are not Arrogant
8.They Don't Laugh At The Mistakes Of Others Or Insult People
9.Classy People Aren't Nosey Or Back Biters -They Mind Their Own Business, And Are Gracious And Affable Toward Everyone
10.They Are Not Nasty, Mean Or Cheap - When Angry Hit Below The Belt By Saying Wrong Things – Indecent Things
11. A Classy Person Is Not Flashy And Is Not Into Bragging And Chest Beating
12.They Don't Talk Bad Behind Back
13.They Don't Give Excuses, Blames Others
14.Please Don't Confuse Snobbiness With Class
15.They Are Not Drama Queens
16.They Don't Throw Tantrums
17.They Don't Have Victim Mindset
18.They are Not Slobs
19.They Don't Feign Knowledge – when they don't know about it & Want To Carry The Conversation –They Ask For More Information About The Subject