​Good personality traits

Good personality traits, The essentials for our Success, Health, Happiness, Relationship, Bliss & Contentedness - Our positive & Negative habits/qualities/strengths/weaknesses -The enablers & the blockers.

Most of the times Our success & Happiness is a matter of reduction, deletion & subtractions & not addition.

It is more important to manage, minimize or eliminate our self-blockers/preventers/destructors, all our negative ones to have what we desire.

How our following biases keep us from being happy, contended & successful

1.Education bias – Most of us equate qualifications, rote-learning & certificate as education

2.Entrepreneurship bias – We having heard of many entrepreneurs who were school/university drop outs & succeeded in-spite of not having high education. We tend to nurture the thought that it is not essential to have education

3.Success bias – we all have the sub-conscious belief that, many of the super successful people succeeded because of few unique habits, we try to learn them to use to make us successful

4.Decision making Bias – Many of us wait for maximum information to have, so as to be able to take decision effectively. It could be the case in many cases, however the studies have shown that when we take decisions based on fewer information, our decision making is more effective

5.Creativity bias – everyone cannot be creative, only few unique people are creative

6.Action taking bias – many times we feel the more we delay taking actions, the more prepared we would be & the better would be the impact of action

7.The result bias – we focus more on the outcome rather than the actions, monitoring the action & improvising on a regular basis

8.Learning bias – we put more emphasis on learning from success rather from failures

9.Aura bias – many of us often assume that externally attractive & smarter people are also nicer and kinder, more capable at their jobs etc & we put certain people on pedestal based on outside appeal

To see the effectiveness of subtraction & the concept LESS IS BEST, Just see what can happen if you are free from

1. Blaming

2. Trying to impress others

• 3.Trying to be someone you are not
• 4.Trying to please everyone
• 5.Trying to make everyone think how nice you are
• 6.Insecurity
• 7.Not able to let go of toxic relationship, toxic people or our past
• 8.Not able to forgive
• 9.Planning revenge
• 10.Being jealous of what others have
• 11.Constantly comparing ourselves & belittling ourselves
• 12.Cursing our luck

13.Having the need to be admired, loved & respected by others

14. Clinging to people & materialistic possessions, even if they are damaging us

• 15.Fear to take risk
• 16.Fear of uncertainties
• 17.Fear of failure

18. Perpetual Whining

19. Trying to dominate others

20. Showing off

21. Criticizing for no reason

22. Preaching especially when you yourself do not follow your teachings

23. Sitting on your past laurels

24. Dwelling on the past mistakes

25.Bragging all the time

26.Being too serious

27.Not asking enough questions

28.Emotional blackmail

29.Name-dropping

30.Pretending your problems don't exist

31.Neglecting the things that are important to you, paying more attention on fulfilling other's desires & pleasures

32.Waiting for your happiness & relating them with something happening in future, instead of being happy now & here

33.Being with people who bring you down, put you down

34.Creating your self-worth based on the opinion of others

35.Focusing on avoiding what you don't want, instead of going after what you do want

36.Comparing yourself to others on different parameters

37.Saving joy & celebrations for special occasions

38.Beating yourself over & over for your mistakes

39.Waiting for your circumstances to change, instead of taking charge of your destiny

40.Wasting time to regret on past

41.Because of Ego not able to apologize to people whom you have hurt

42.Saying "yes" to things you would rather not do

43.Feeling guilty

44.Taking things personally, based on your perception created internally

45.Having all or nothing mindset

46.Always in competition with others, without even there actually being a competition

47.Gossiping & spreading rumors

48.Ignoring breaks, relaxation, vacations

49.Trusting too easily

50.Not learning

51.Resisting change

52.Having self-defeating internal conversation

53.Jumping to conclusion

54.Not able to see positives in your life, around you & in others

55.Trying to be perfect

56.Playing it safe

57.Failing to delegate & Failing to seek help from others

IMPROVING YOUR QUALITY OF LIFE

"If standard of living is your number one objective, quality of life almost never improves. But if quality of life is your number one objective, standard of living invariably improves." — Zig Ziglar

Life is unique. Leadership is unique. The skills that work well for one leader may not work at all for another. However there are following common elements.

1. Successful people focus on action that leads them to the Results they desire.

2. They are always self-disciplined & self-motivated

3. They have strong values Let us see how can be improve the overall quality of our life by creating few simple & yet great habits We can make our life worthwhile, meaningful, blessed, and blissful through the adherence to the following sets of positive habits.

First define the quality of life you want in each of the following areas

1. Happiness

2. Love

3. Professional, Business & Success in general

4. Wealth

5. Health

6. Social

7. Emotional

8. Spiritual

9. Any other area important to you

10. Leisure Hobbies

I have given few examples given for some categories

Happiness habits

1. Identifying your stressors & taking actions to nullify them

2. Creating habit of gratitude, by creating & maintaining a journal of all that you are blessed with, thankful for

3. Changing your priorities from materialistic pursuits to meaningful goals as from collecting materialistic possessions to creating memorable moments & memories with people you love and care for

4. Going for giving rather than being a taker

5. Please fill in with what is relevant for you from the 54 points by making action out of the respective point

6. Indulge yourself, celebrate the life

Success habits

1. Invest in yourself by creating a learning plan, for continuous learning & reinventing yourself

2. Taking actions which are close to your heart & passion

3. Taking risk towards worthwhile pursuits

4. Taking action on the areas your fear holding you back from success or happiness

5. Look for change & pro-active work to accept change. Create a paradigm change in your thinking, action & decision making

6. Please fill in with what is relevant for you from the 54 points by making action out of the respective point

Wealth habits

• 1.Create multiple source of income
• 2.Use the latest technology to make you wealthy
• 3.Track & audit your expenses. Buy as per the need not for impressing others
• 4.Save for all your future expenses
• 5.Educate yourself in the art of investment
• 6.Spread your savings & investment in diversified portfolios

Health habits

• 1.Eat More Fruit/Vegetables
• 2.Eat breakfast
• 3.Junk the junk-food
• 4.Exercise
• 5.Meditate
• 6.Drink water instead of bear
• 7.Having plenty of natural vitamins & minerals
• 8.Sleep well
• 9.Monitor your health parameters

Few General habits of successful people, you choose what you need from the following list

1.Adaptive

2.Analytical Mind

3.Articulate

4.Balanced

5.Collaborative

6.Committed

7.Courageous

8.Creative

9.Decisive & Perseverance

10.Detail-Oriented

11.Emotionally Competent

12.Friendly

13.Hard Working

14.Humorous

15.Organized

16.Conscientiousness towards excellence, Productive

17.Relationship-Oriented

18.Responsible

19.Trustworthy

20.Visionary

21.Wisdom learned from others as well as from their own life

22.Integrity & strong values

23.Humility, Kindness, Politeness

24.Compassion Generosity

25.Fairness

26.Authenticity

27.Courageousness

28.Value other people's time as well as their own time

29.Give credit to others wherever it is due

30.Never take advantage of others

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