<p>How to make the best out of the worst situation </p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">In this article you will learn </b></p><ul><li>-Why it is possible and mandatory to bounce-back from crises and setbacks</li> <li>-39 ways How to make Best out of your worst</li></ul><p><br></p><p>Like in the epic movie Forrest-Gump Tom Hanks says <b data-redactor-tag="b">SHIT-Happens – which it invariably would for each one of us.</b></p><p>Then <b data-redactor-tag="b">IF SHIT HAPPENS for you - TURN IT INTO MANURE and Fertilizer</b> – and then use it to grow your own garden.</p><p>In the face of setbacks - <b data-redactor-tag="b">some people just fall apart – a few keeps moving-on till they have overcome the insurmountable odds and challenges</b>.</p><p>The difference between those <b data-redactor-tag="b">who crumble under the weight of the world and those who persevere - is the mindset of Hope, Faith and Resilience</b> to make the most out of the worst of situations.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">We all have days now and then when nothing goes right and it feels like as if everyone along with the universe is conspiring against us.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">On these days all our decisions, choices and actions bring outcomes that makes us further depressed.</b></p><p>We need to get into <b data-redactor-tag="b">our psych that whenever we are facing unexpected life-rocking and life-shocking problems, difficulties, obstacles, challenges and struggles</b> – it is an indication that we need to create <b data-redactor-tag="b">Giga transformation and changes</b> in all our perspectives and all aspect of life – mindsets, attitude, habits, our expectations, our dreams etc. etc.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Irrespective of how horrible the situation is - we not only have to go through the nasty ride – but ensure that we retain our sanity.</b></p><p>These could one or all of these and more situations like - losing your job, businesses going bankrupt -and your life's savings might have completely wiped out OR anything worse than these.</p><p>History is full of incidences where <b data-redactor-tag="b">in the darkest-time - countless individuals, communities and societies persevered and after long struggles</b> - attainted triumphs of greatest nature to set examples for the generations to follow.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Tragedies, disasters, crises of mammoth nature - always brings out the bravest selfless-acting leaders, heroes and heroines</b> and the worst times can trigger the Best in few People – <b data-redactor-tag="b">many of whom remain unsung.</b></p><p>Our normal <b data-redactor-tag="b">life itself is filled with little-little setbacks, upsets, disruptions.</b></p><p>Right now <b data-redactor-tag="b">we are going through scariest, trying and very tough times - and things are likely to get worse before they get better</b> – therefore we all need to look for ways for – in every possible ways to make it better for ourselves as well as help those who does not have the requisite energies, caliber and strengths.</p><p>The <b data-redactor-tag="b">large disasters always disrupt and make us free from our earlier assumptions, beliefs and expectations </b>– which is a prerequisite for growth of exponential proportions.</p><p>When this happens – <b data-redactor-tag="b">we need to experiment radically different things and try totally new ways – which in turn creates things which were unimaginable till it happened - but when it happened it felt like a need of how we existed without them</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">39 ways How to make Best out of your worst</b></p><ul><li>1.Once you feel that you are up-to thinking rationally and are able to take stock of the situation- and - It may sound ridiculous to think and dream when you are in the eye of the storm – BUT – we need to redefine, re-think, re-dream – Our new goal post</li> <li>2.After this we need to Plan backward from the end-results - to the today's action-steps</li> <li>3.While planning – Take inventory all your resources – like our emotional-professional-family support system, our skills-expertise-experiences-competencies-strengths and so on.</li> <li>4.Focus ONLY On – the actions, decisions and activities – which are fully within our area of influence and control</li> <li>5.Now it is the time for pushing yourself forward to generate the momentum – and as long as you keep moving forward--even with tiny steps- you will move towards winner post</li> <li>6.Experiment, fail, improvise, innovate and try – THIS IS THE MANTRA THAT WILL TAKE YOU THROUGH</li> <li>7.We also need to understand that sometimes not getting what you wanted desperately could turn out to be a wonderful thing</li> <li>8.Surround yourself with people who make you feel good and inspired</li> <li>9.When you just can't think what to do – DO NOTHING</li> <li>10. Learning to face the brutal truth - Don't ignore, neglect and avoid the problems just because something doesn't fit your perception – this is one of the most counterproductive habits to be in denial</li> <li>11. Decide how to deal with it most effectively using creativity and innovation AND then take action</li> <li>12. Use the power of pain to catalyze yourself into actions towards something you are passionate about and also to give you the energy you need to move toward better things</li> <li>13. Understand that only you will have to take actions to make your life better and create the changes that you want un life – so just go and do it</li> <li>14. If you don't actually believe that you can change your situation, then you have no motivation to try to make that change - you feel doomed from the start.</li> <li>15. None of us can make someone else change. But we can control how others make us feel.</li> <li>16. ACTION is a great remedy for fear and dread</li> <li>17. Break your large action plans into bite-sized baby steps - to break the fear apart.</li> <li>18. Avoid associating with someone who degrades you on a daily basis or who discount your worth or who don't believe in you</li> <li>19. Stop complaining and start negotiating solutions</li> <li>20. Stop whining and take action to mitigate your sufferings</li> <li>21. Stop playing victim mindset – being a martyr, a victim, a rescuer and a persecute – instead take complete responsibility for all your actions and decisions</li> <li>22. Be proactive, be ready – jump into the sea of uncertainty – after creating plans on how would you handle if the worst happens</li> <li>23. Imagine the worst-case scenario and figure out how you'd deal with that</li> <li>24. Act swiftly but smartly – avoid foolish impulsive actions</li> <li>25. Never cut corners -deal with it sooner rather than later to solve the problem for long-term</li> <li>26. Be flexible and pivot fast if something does not work</li> <li>27. Forget the sissy mindset of weeping on what should happen, what you could have done etc. Etc.</li> <li>28. At times - let go of the control and allow things to fall apart so you can put them back together the way they were meant to be</li> <li>29. Don't wait for the right and perfect - opportunity, person, time - Take action as soon as you have basic information AND improvise as yo8u go along'</li> <li>30. Nurture important relationships</li> <li>31. Focus on excellence at everything that you do</li> <li>32. Take calculated Risks</li> <li>33. Never settle for mediocrity</li> <li>34. UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU CAN CONTROL AND WHAT YOU CAN'T</li> <li>35. Engage with other people -When you are sad or stressed, you often don't want to be around others. But there are several advantages to social engagement.</li> <li>36. Stop comparing your suffering with others</li> <li>37. Don't repress your feelings – of Anger, Grief, Jealousy, Sadness, Despair and Melancholy – if you feel like crying go right ahead it is healthy</li> <li>38. Identify what you could have done better – now think what you can do now to improve your existing situation</li> <li>39. Commit doing something nice for somebody less fortunate than you</li></ul><div><br></div><p> #howtomakebestoutofworst, #bouncebackfromsetbacksandcrises, #howtobounceback, #createmindetofhopefaithlove, #developingresilience, #retainingyoursanityduringyourdarkestphases, #defeatinsurmountableodds<b data-redactor-tag="b">, #experimentradicallydifferentideas, #whattodowhenourworldisfallingapart, #whendecisionsgowrong, #dealingwithunexpected, #</b>Experimentfailimproviseinnovate, #thinklongtermafterbigsetbacks, #nevercompareyoursufferingswithothers, #ifshithappensturnitintomanure</p>