<p><b data-redactor-tag="b">In this article you will learn</b></p><p>- <b data-redactor-tag="b">27 Truths to break the Myths about Bad-Luck Good-Luck theories and how nature has designed the life to be</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">- Want to get lucky - 79 powerful Tips to make you feel and become Lucky and minimize the impact of your bad-luck</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">- Ask these 16 questions to make you fully grounded with the reality of your life - understand that in this world – there will be thousands of people who will be facing the following situations right now</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Retaining your sanity during turmoil, upsets and bad-luck</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Have you ever been plagued by prolonged phase of bad-luck - How to stay sane when the world is going crazy and everything is breaking-up for you.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">What to do when you are having bad luck - Remaining sane when the life is falling apart due to bad-luck.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Are you full of fears, anxieties, pain, anger, stress and depression - right-now – because of a series of back to back misfortunes.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">STOP and freeze right now - wherever you are and whatever you are doing</b> - and take a deep long breath hold it for a while [and then repeat it for at least six times].</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Your world and the situation that you are in</b> - is<b data-redactor-tag="b"> not going to change in few seconds or in few minutes or even few hours.</b></p><p>Please understand <b data-redactor-tag="b">that our fears, our anxieties, our pains, our anger, our stress, our frustrations and our irritations – can be the catalyst for very high growth and productivity.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">But it is only possible – if you use this energy to take actions which makes you move forward towards the outcomes, results and solutions – that you want and need.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">On the other hand – if these shocks paralyses you into complete inaction and erodes your ability to function – then it may make life worse for you in many more ways than you can imagine. </b></p><p>Many people who have had a series of long setbacks and failures – get into this mode and have very<b data-redactor-tag="b"> pathetic existence for themselves as well as for their loved ones</b> – <b data-redactor-tag="b">unless they seek help and go for the professional treatment</b>.</p><p>There are also few people <b data-redactor-tag="b">who create wonderful-fantastic and great life and become role-models for millions - in spite of their bad phases</b>.</p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Your fear can save your life – and it can also destroy or limit the quality of your life.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">If we handle, deal-with and channelize our negative experiences and emotions stemming out of our major-setbacks and crises - in healthy-empowering-ways - then it can transform and turn-around our lives in very magnanimously powerful manner.</b></p><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">27 Truths to break the Myths about Bad-Luck Good-Luck theories and how nature has designed the life to be</b></p><ul><li>1.Some people go through years of setbacks – <b data-redactor-tag="b">back to back – and we can't find any rhyme or reason to explain this phenomenon</b> – except accepting this as sheer bad luck.</li> <li>2.There is no scientific explanation for <b data-redactor-tag="b">bad-luck or good-luck</b> – although they do happen to us and to the people we know.</li> <li>3.Many times for few people – these <b data-redactor-tag="b">three proverbs becomes chillingly real</b> – <b data-redactor-tag="b">troubles never comes alone</b> AND <b data-redactor-tag="b">when it rains it pours</b> AND <b data-redactor-tag="b">the unlucky ones attract more bad luck</b>.</li> <li>4.Seemingly bad-luck can last quite long <b data-redactor-tag="b">– longer than good-luck</b> - for few people.</li> <li>5.Many times there are phases in your life – where you are stuck for long – nothing is moving or happening - nothing works, no progress, all ideas backfire etc.</li> <li>6.Then some people are at the right place at the right time - <b data-redactor-tag="b">get the right and brightest ideas and take the most apt actions to gain success of mammoth proportions</b></li> <li>7.The reverse can also be true - <b data-redactor-tag="b">where you do all the wrong things – take all the wrong actions - choose all the wrong options</b> – if you look-back into your own life you will find both the examples.</li> <li>8.For some people, good luck comes naturally – <b data-redactor-tag="b">they seem to hit the jackpot every time in almost most areas of their life - although many of us may not know what all efforts-time-perseverance-practice they put in for it</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">9.</b>It is possible to turn your luck around – through developing a <b data-redactor-tag="b">pragmatic-attitude which will not only make you feel luckier but actually would make you become luckier.</b></li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">10. </b>Life's is always a mix of positives and negatives - <b data-redactor-tag="b">never an absolute good or an absolute bad.</b></li> <li>11. Life is not designed to be fair – although our expectations of it being fair causes more problems and disappointments [<b data-redactor-tag="b">these expectations comes from wrong societal-conditioning and folklores of life being perfect when certain things happens - which never does</b>] </li> <li>12. Many of us have this hallucinated belief that life is like an equipment or a machine - right inputs will give you right output and where we need to only to input the good values to get back all great things</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">13. </b>Many of us are also conditioned that the good guys always win in the end - while the bad guys ultimately get caught and punished- <b data-redactor-tag="b">you look around and see what actually happens - forget about past and future life - as no-one is there who has been to all three-life and remembers credibly </b></li> <li>14. Many times when we follow the path of righteousness and still we experience negative outcomes – we feel shocked </li> <li>15. You may find yourself highly disappointed [most of time] - <b data-redactor-tag="b">If you are the type of person who believes that – you only have to ensure to have the right and positive intent - then put right quality of efforts and actions AND -</b> you will be happy, peaceful, and successful along with wonderful relationships </li> <li>16. Life does not work-out like fairly-tales - although sometimes things happen as per our expectations also</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">17. </b>Some of you might even have experienced - <b data-redactor-tag="b">that you get punished for doing perfectly legit things [the right things the right ways]</b> - and the guys who did wrong things – go scot-free and also get sympathy as bonus <b data-redactor-tag="b">BUT you end up being blamed.</b></li> <li>18. There are times-occasions-situations -<b data-redactor-tag="b">where your efforts only resulted into bigger exhaustion and despair </b>– and in this process -few of us eventually get burned-out, get into severe depression which develop into more sinister psychological dis-orders -Having faced these phases numerous times – I know that many of you too would have faced these highly upsetting times</li> <li>19. Many of us - when we are in bad phase - try – the meditation, the self-help – but – nothing works - <b data-redactor-tag="b">simply because they are not the cure for the disruptions we are facing - if you practice them regularly then they make you mentally-emotionally and physically more resilient</b> </li> <li>20. So you may question - Are our values and beliefs are wrong – absolutely not. </li> <li>21. If our values are not wrong - then what is that most of us are missing - this is actually our mythical-conditioning <b data-redactor-tag="b">- which makes us link our inner peace, bliss and happiness with - the external factors like power, money, status, name, fame</b> –because these create ever-increasing and ever-expanding hunger for all of these - that is the more we have the more we want</li> <li>22. As a result even if we acquire and accomplish what we were originally aiming for–the happiness we feel is temporary - <b data-redactor-tag="b">These external-factors and rewards bring a surge of quick elation - but they fade as fast</b> - just like the caffeinated and carbonated drinks </li> <li>23. When our values are in complete harmony with our inner-core - with our real-authentic self – <b data-redactor-tag="b">and we live these values on every day basis – then only we can have sustainable values for us and others and have lasting joy-contentment-bliss</b></li> <li>24. When you are being hit from all sides <b data-redactor-tag="b">– to be able to face these phases in better emotional-mental-physical states – we have to train ourselves not only to expect long-phases of down-times</b> [there will be plenty of uplifting moments during this bleak phases - should you be able to identify and recognize them].</li> <li>25. AND <b data-redactor-tag="b">we also need have hope and expect triumphs and victories and successes</b> and wins [similarly in this phase there will be failures and setbacks too]</li> <li>26. All of us experience bad luck - if you start observing you may find people far worse-off than yourself</li> <li>27. Lot of us would not notice the miseries in the world when we are having great times - only when we ourselves go through these - we make start noticing the sufferings of others</li></ul><p><b data-redactor-tag="b">Want to get lucky - 79 Powerful Tips to make you feel and become Lucky and minimize the impact of your bad-luck</b></p><ul><li>1.Kindly understand that even the seemingly luckiest people aren't lucky all the time – they too have their share of pains, hurts, losses, failures and setbacks.</li> <li>2.All of us can tilt the odds in our favor - many times</li> <li>3.Having faith that you are a lucky person actually makes you more likely to notice opportunities and more likely to be in a position to take advantage of them.</li> <li><b data-redactor-tag="b">4.</b><b data-redactor-tag="b">Ask these 16 questions to make you fully grounded with the reality of your life - understand that in this world – there will be thousands of people who will be facing the following situations right now</b></li> <li>I.Lose their job today</li> <li>II.Met with accident today</li> <li>III.Discover or become seriously ill</li> <li>IV.Lose money today</li> <li>V.Miss opportunities multiple times</li> <li>VI.Make bad decisions uncountable times</li> <li>VII.Make wrong choices</li> <li>VIII.Trust wrong people</li> <li>IX.Have relationship break-up and pains</li> <li>X.Your children may not do as well as you expect them to</li> <li>XI.May lose their loved ones</li> <li>XII.May hurt others badly</li> <li>XIII.May get betrayed by someone whom they trust blindly</li> <li>XIV.May make irreversible mistake</li> <li>XV.May fall flat or Fail big</li> <li>XVI.If any of these have happened to you - please understand that - this time it is happening to you.</li> <li>5.Once you are in right mental-emotional frame of mind - Visualize your taking right actions and accomplishing what you want and overcoming the obstacles</li> <li>6.This technique makes you plan out the steps to make that thing happen and accentuate the positive by also showing you the steps</li> <li>7.Clear all the clutter on your desk, computer, home and your brain – by identifying and focusing only on highest pay-off and most important meaningful goals</li> <li>8.Keep your debt to nil or zero level – by spending less than what you earn or you have</li> <li>9.Help others become more successful and accomplish their dreams - to increase the power of cause and effect </li> <li>10. Use the law of compounding-power of a large group for your cause - it may seem very right and logical everything all by yourself – the team efforts which created a great concept of multi-level-marketing - I am not advocating MLM the way it is being practiced today - only the Strong basics, fundamentals and principals behind this</li> <li>11. Reach out to a higher power and seek blessings – and pray and believe to be given the rightest, the correctest and the bestest – ideas, solutions, reactions and responses to make you deal with your turmoil better in calm manner</li> <li>12. Think smart and creatively to come out with actions-steps and solutions - which will take you - one step at a time and brings you closer to your future goals</li> <li>13. When nothing works – you don't have a job, relationships disintegrates, debt-mount high, savings – start learning and upgrading your skills to make yourself engaged and occupied meaningfully – no money – go online and seek courses which are absolutely free YET valuable in such a way that it makes you more worthy and employable </li> <li>14. Read, listen and watch people who inspire you</li> <li>15. Identify - all those character traits, skills, competencies, habits, attitude and knowledge etc. - which can make you immensely more valuable</li> <li>16. After identifying - start inculcating these on full-time basis in your everyday life by practicing and applying everywhere</li> <li>17. Develop interests that makes you discover your strengths </li> <li>18. Develop the attitude of being completely flexible and open to view every person, every situation in new perspectives</li> <li>19. Be with people who have different as well as opposite ideas and perspectives - to broaden your own emotional-social-mental intelligence</li> <li>20. Teach whatever you know to those – who need them</li> <li>21. If possible – be with people who have very high energy, are smarter than you and are action-oriented go-getters</li> <li>22. Become more active on various professional forums – by participating in talks, webinars etc.</li> <li>23. Always be on lookout for opportunities – then take actions till you either fail or succeed – if you fail take the lessons and move on and look for another opportunity</li> <li>24. Luck at times operate in very peculiar ways - what feels like a bad-deal ends up being a blessing – or a seemingly great break – breaks you down</li> <li>25. Try to solve problems of others by putting yourself in unfamiliar situations</li> <li>26. Accept challenges and challenging tasks - which makes you exercise your brain, creativity, thoughts and emotions – in totally unprecedented ways</li> <li>27. Become master in improvisation and learn to either pivot or course-correct your decisions and actions which did not work</li> <li>28. Force yourself to take action into the realm of fear – the ones which may give you breakthrough</li> <li>29. Learn to listen and trust your intuition</li> <li>30. Take risks – know that both possibilities exists – of failing and succeeding – if fail learn and move on and move forward</li> <li>31. Hang out with lucky, happy and successful people</li> <li>32. But – prepare yourself for – how you will deal if worst things happen in multiple fronts</li> <li>33. Stop thinking about what you could have done differently and wishing if only the circumstances were little different</li> <li>34. Instead start focusing on what you can do now – to lessen and mitigate the effect</li> <li>35. Stop magnifying what has happened by overanalyzing and overthinking</li> <li>36. Take action now – with what you have and which are within your area of control</li> <li>37. While chance events certainly occur- they are purely random in nature.</li> <li>38. Try becoming more social – by increasing interacting with happy people</li> <li>39. Stop watching news channels – to avoid unnecessary exposure to unneeded negativities</li> <li>40. Identify which areas of your life makes you feel unlucky – is it your relationship or children or finances or professional and career or business or social</li> <li>41. Create focused and determined intent to take actions to change your situation</li> <li>42. Then create action plan by working backwards from the outcome you want – the worst thing you can do is- <b data-redactor-tag="b">do-nothing</b> –nothing is going to change if there are no actions-taken</li> <li>43. Go through your life and check – whether you have been doing the same things again and again yet expecting a different and better result</li> <li>44. If it is so use this to make this your best opportunity to create the bestest you – remember metamorphosis – larva can't turn into butterfly without undergoing solid pains.</li> <li>45. If you think life has treated you unfairly and has favored others – find out if possible – what all they endured before getting the success or anything that makes you envious of them</li> <li>46. If you want to change your luck you have to grow and better in many of the roles you have and upgrade and acquire newer skills </li> <li>47. Work with a life coach </li> <li>48. Mentor someone else</li> <li>49. Expose yourself to new people-new culture-new social norms</li> <li>50. If you want something more for your life you've got to get around people who are doing what you want to be do and be</li> <li>51. Your mindset can be your biggest friend or your reason to fail – choose yours - based the points that resonates with you in this blog and other ones in this website or the other one</li> <li>52. Identify the areas of your life where you feel blessed – initially it may be difficult but you can find few</li> <li>53. Take a risk with the intention of not giving a damn if you do not succeed</li> <li>54. Ask yourself – is yours a case of "nothing good is happening for you in this phase" or the case of "bad things are only happening to you.</li> <li>55. You might feel unlucky because play too-safe</li> <li>56. Not taking risks can get you a life – where you never achieving anything worthwhile plus you spend a lifetime doing things you don't enjoy and missing out on your love, potential and living with regrets</li> <li>57. If you're doing what you know would change your luck – then stick with it until you get what you want</li> <li>58. Create pro-active ways to productive, powerful and meaningful </li> <li>59. Identify your very own positive emotional mood boosters - by becoming involved and absorbed in something that gives you purpose and fulfillment and make you feel come-alive</li> <li>60. If your life is not where you want it to be and you feel the urge to blame others for your plight - remember -that it is not what happened to you - it is how you deal with it that determines your quality of future life and blaming robs you of the action that you can take to make your life better</li> <li>61. Ask yourself "how can I improve my life and gain better control in my life" - accept responsibility and stop the blame and excuse and justifying game.</li> <li>62. Appreciate what you have - your strengths, your loved ones and anything that many would love to have</li> <li>63. Try and experiment and do something new things each day - changing your mindset isn't something that happens overnight – that is why change a little everyday</li> <li>64. Accept uncertainty and changes as part of everyday life</li> <li>65. Stick to the facts – challenge your assumptions and perception of the situation – which is making you stressed</li> <li>66. Avoid all-or-nothing thinking - accept that life is a mixed blessings</li> <li>67. Make taking care of </li> <li>68. Identify if you are living in denial - then work out as per the tips given in my blog on this topic</li> <li>69. Avoid falling in the trap of substance abuse to feel temporary high</li> <li>70. Force yourself to feel and accept your pain and let your grief or loss cycle take its course and don't rush it</li> <li>71. Take your despair as an opportunity– to become your true self</li> <li>72. Seek help </li> <li>73. Generously help others</li> <li>74. Learn to laugh –at your misery</li> <li>75. Find meaning and make your life meaningful – introspect and identify your own dreams and start working on long-term projects, relationships, interests and commitments through meaningful activities</li> <li>76. Start living a life full of compassion, love, care and admiration</li> <li>77. Be mindful of your energy – manage your energies well and use all the healthy methods those work for you</li> <li>78. Stop fighting and resisting during the bad luck time – instead practice accepting the changes</li> <li>79. 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