81+ Self-Sabotaging Habits and Thought Patterns and 50+ Tips on how not to be your own worst enemy. Understand and accept that No one can be more effective at screwing-up your life better than yourself. Agreed that You might be going through most harrowing times – but, MANY TIMES, the way we perceive, think and deal with what has already happened –...
How to be in demand and sought-after in your job, business, profession, relationship, society. Have you ever wondered WHY some people for the same position get enviable high remuneration packages than their peers [who may have similar qualifications and experience]. OR some products, brands, organizations command premium prices, awareness and deman...
Routine and monotony are our everyday and the most common elements of our current existence. The above is in addition to our lives being full of tough times, challenges and being filled with moments where we just want to run away. If we record the daily activities of most of the working people - we would find that – most of us - wake up at the same...
In today's complex and fast-changing economic, political, market, blink-of-eye-Technologies and consumer-preferences-and-habits => to say "that being the top boss is demanding would be the biggest understatement of our times ". Whether you are a CEO of the world's largest organization or a one-person start-up OR even someone looking for a job – ...
Many of us confuse feeling good and momentary pleasure with happiness. Happiness is something we all seemingly desire [at least believe that we are looking for] – but most of us don't even know what real-true-meaningful happiness is – and – very rarely we focus on being happy in our every day life. Many of us also believe that Happiness is s...
What is a sacred space ?is it a physical space? Why do We need a Sacred Space? And how do we create our own sacred space? A sacred space is our very-own Personal and Secret sanctum-sanctorum to recharge our mental, emotional, spiritual and physical energies and to rejuvenate us . This is the space where we find ourselves and get in touch with our...
Don't We all want to live a life full of meaning, joy, and fulfillment – does this happen and is it easy. It could be the most difficult thing to identify THAT ONE THING – which is THE PURPOSE of your Life and which MAKES You COME ALIVE and which GIVES A SENSE OF FULFILLMENT and Meaning in our lives. There is no fixed solution, process or answer ...
If you are person who is not satisfied with mere survival BUT wants to thrive in life BIG-WAY – then this article is for you. Most of our Limitations are Self-Created, Self-Imposed and Self-Geared and Self-Powered -and – they block us from accomplishing great-feats that we are capable of. Otherwise there would not be people – who Triumph in Doing ...
In this article we will learn the following -19 pre-requisite mental-emotional frames and mindset - we need to develop so that we can take care of ourselves in most powerful and rejuvenating ways plus What self-care is not -75 Tips on How to take care of Yourself through Pampering and Indulging Yourself in such a ways that it brings out the best in...
Don't Stop Complaining – Learn to Complain Effectively to Get What You want. In this article we will focus on the 43 Tips Art of Complaining Effectively and its interdependent 39 ways of Art of Negotiating * for successful outcomes. Most of us accept this wisdom about complaining that - Complaining is bad . This is both TRUE as well as False . Th...
In this article we will learn -Why we feel irritated - and how constant irritation can lead to frustrations - 7 ways How to deal with irritating behavior in the workplace - 15 examples of irritating behaviors of others - which bothers us and drains our energy and morale - 10 basic reasons why we can get irritated which later leads to frustration - ...
Life is a passage through a wilderness which constantly throws many small, huge, unexpected and sometimes totally disrupting - challenges, difficulties, obstacles, problems, situations . Each person whether a new born or a veteran faces numerous setbacks, failures, mistakes, crises – on an on-going basis throughout their life. Although in many ins...
100+ Practical and Do-It-Yourself tips to gain control of your mind, emotions, thoughts ad life. Do you sometimes find that situations and people are in control and driving your emotions, your feelings and even your mind . OR do you frequently experience the feeling of not being in control of your life . OR Do you get agitated very fast [this for m...
As the almost immortal saying says – " the illiterates of the future won't be those who can not read and write – BUT THOSE WHO CANNOT UNLEARN-LEARN-RELEARN ". This cannot be more-truer in today's Disruptive VUCA world – where the faster than rapidly changing technologies, newer ways of comforts, dwindling resources => has created a generation a...
In this article you will learn the following - 27 Fundamentals about big-decision-making - 57 ways to become comfortable in taking tough-decisions and acting upon them - 10 Questions we need to ask when faced with a tough decision in life - 15 most difficult decisions sometime few of us need to make – in work and life Making big decisions - 27 Fund...
Have you ever been in situations – where all the available-options either have similar powerfully negative outcomes Or all of them are irresistibly desirable and needed BUT YOU must CHOSE ONE - BECAUSE not choosing is not even a choice. These are called Catch-22 situations – in these there are catches and riders and conditions that makes us comple...
In this article you will learn the following - 6 reasons why people keep suffering maladies - when they can improve their quality of life -70 DIY tips to Make you start believing yourself and to help you get back into a fully self-empowered and resourceful emotional-state In today's world more and more people are having increasingly reducing belief...
All of us can win in life Big-Time. If only we are able to push past our struggles, our conflicts and our demons [ those are sitting in our way ] and move forwards towards the success, growth, prosperity, happiness and relationships that we deserve and desire. Look at your life as it is right now and check what fits with your life 1.Are you struggl...
Life is so simple yet complex - depending on - whether you are focused on meaningful worthwhile living or chasing the glamour. In this article I will try to give clarity on 1.When winning is really a long-term and actual loss AND 2.When losing makes us a real-winner Many-times choosing to lose is essential to makes us the real winner – in the lon...
Welcome to the world of Rapid, Unpredictable, Chaotic, Inconsistent, Oxymoronic, and Badly-Tangled, Volatile, Complex, Hazy-Picture, Continuously-Changing, Overwhelming & Unstable Atmosphere [ you are welcome to add words that I might have missed in this series ]. Today's Leaders as well as the most common man need to learn the skills to cope...
Real-life heroes and off-course the Real-life heroines are seldom those well-known and recognizable celebrities who are revered by the masses. [I will be using this word Hero as gender-neutral - to refer to both male and females' genders but also to other genders as well]. In my opinion there is clear distinction between celebrities and real-life...
Innovation helps us create a new dimension of performance, future, benchmarks, standards, directions and improvements. In this article we have highlighted 78 ways to enhance creativity and innovation in organizations and also in your own personal, professional, social life. In the organizations, nations and communities - Sustained innovation come...
All of us have come across, lived with are with people in our own family, friends, social circle and professional and work places people – who are Difficult people, Manipulative people, Controlling people, Dictators , Toxic people, Negative people, Demanding people and so on. When we are unable to handle them effectively we lose our own self and st...
Your being funny or wanting to be funny is dependent on how often you try to make people laugh – off-course by doing so, you would fail more but you will also succeed more. If want to laugh away your blues or break out of your shackles - humor is a great way. Having a good sense of humor makes you more enjoyable to be around . This article is about...
If I ask you - Do you lose your calm, YOUR answer would only differ FROM OTHER'S ONLY in terms of frequency with which you lose your calm, composer and control. All of us loses our calm, now and there . Very few of lose our calm because of the events [although the events/situations/difficult and toxic people do play their part] – MOST OF US LOSE OU...
Have you ever been in any of the following situations? Where you saw someone facing a daunting or awkward situation or a particularly difficult person – and handled the situation in such sophisticated, elegant refine, suave and polished way to make you feel totally awed and wowed. Or you have seen someone commit a mistake– yet came out of that bl...
It is said – That The only way to discover our limits - is to go beyond our possible-zones to the arena of the impossible . We all know of people who have beaten what the humans[till that time] thought impossible – AND - the number of THESE incredible PEOPLE ARE NOT one, two or few – they are in thousands , in every country – who have defied and r...
All across the today's world, we see many instances of businesses succeeding with - "Why I Didn't think of it myself or how could have I fail to recognize and en-cash this Opportunity" IDEAs. These successful disruptive-businesses also becomes the reason for thousands of people to launch similar ventures ONLY TO FAIL. The absolute truth is that, i...
Is being in your comfort-zone all bad. Most of us believe so. Many of the established societal definitions and ways to obtain success, happiness, growth, name/fame/ recognition – actually do the opposite [that is, they make us stressed, when we could have had been experiencing joy - while journeying through our lives]. We are often told that life...
Ask yourself – what would happen in your life – if you are able to take the correct actions[towards your dreams and passions] – without any constraints and restraints holding you back. How many of us seek To be Really powerful [not through gaining a position that gives you the control of harming and cause grave-damage to large masses (in fact, this...
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